Struggling in an intimate relationship is very common, regardless of its structure or style. Humans have diverse attachment needs.
Some people feel at home in monogamy, while others thrive in non-monogamous relationships. As a poly-affirming therapists, we embrace all consensual relationship styles, including monogamy and ethical non-monogamy (e.g., open relationships, polyamory etc.).
Sexual expression also varies from person to person and relationship to relationship. As kink-aware therapists, we respect all consensual expressions of sexuality and view kink as a normal part of the sexual spectrum.
In LGBTQ+ relationship counseling, regardless of the relationship style, all partners decide on common therapy goals together. Though staying together can’t be a guaranteed outcome, the ultimate goal is finding the most authentic and effective communication, functioning, or structure of the partnership to promote the most thriving of the members.